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Chapter 403: Substitute Bride 21

Gu An hugged the children and said: Of course I don’t abandon you, I’m just afraid that you will feel that you are loved less now that you have a little brother.

And mom can also accept that the man has children, so mom doesn’t have to give birth to children. Having you is enough.

Ling Yu said: Mom and teacher, please give us a little brother. I don’t have a younger brother, and we won’t be jealous of each other. After all, we are already that old.

Besides, even if you get married, it’s impossible for you to have a little brother right away.

Gu An was somewhat helpless when he heard this: You only know that your teacher likes mom? How do you know that after giving birth to a child, your brothers will not compete with you for mom?

Ling Tian said: Because we once saw the teacher watching a video of his mother, and there was a look of admiration in his eyes.

Doesn’t this mean that you love your mother?

If it wasn't because of love, I wouldn't have stayed single for so many years.

Besides, it’s good to have younger brothers. With more younger brothers, no matter who is busy in the future, there will always be someone to accompany mom.

Gu An nodded and said nothing more. Since the child likes him, she doesn't mind remarrying if the other party is not bad.

As for having children, forget it, she doesn't want to. Although she doesn't have to take care of the children herself, she can't just marry a man and have a child every time.

But let’s talk about these later. First, let’s see what kind of people the children’s teachers are. If they are really good, there’s nothing wrong in leaving them descendants.

Helen arrived soon, and it seemed that she had cleaned herself up from head to toe.

He was also wearing a suit and tie, and if you didn't know him, you would think he was going to a banquet.

After Helen came in, she always looked at Gu An. Even if Gu An was slow-witted, he could feel it. What's more, her five senses were more sensitive than anyone else's.

The four children were very sensible and went out to play. Helen started to get nervous when she saw the children had left. She could relax a little when the children were around, at least she was not alone with Gu An.

Now that we are alone, I actually started to get nervous. Maybe it’s because I like him/her. I’m always afraid that I won’t do well and the other person won’t like me, so I feel like this.

Helen finally encouraged herself. After all, she had sounded out the situation with the children and knew that they liked him very much and would be able to accept it if he married Gu An.

So even though I'm here just as a guest, I actually want to confess my feelings. No matter what happens in the future, I have to give myself a chance first.

This saves you from always thinking too much and it won’t help.

Helen exhaled and then said: Miss Gu An, I came here this time, first, to visit you, and second, I want to ask you if you have any plans to remarry.

After saying this, I felt a little awkward, so I could only continue: Actually, what I mean is, what I want to say is that I have always had a crush on Miss Gu An.

I have never missed any episode of any movie or TV show starring Miss Gu An. I have liked Miss Gu An for ten years. Now I am older, so I came here today to give myself an answer.

If Miss Gu An had not divorced Mr. Dongfang, I might never have said it in my life and would have just waited silently.

So I just want to ask, what is Miss Gu An's plan? If she still plans to get married, do you think I can do it? I have always been single and have no bad record. My parents are gone, and now I am alone.

Gu An was stunned when he heard this. Was this a confession? Why did it feel a little awkward?

No one would ask directly when they meet for the first time, but it is understandable. You are at this age now, and there are many things that cannot be done when you are young. You don't have time to fall in love.

Of course, there are people who are in love, but the time never lasts too long. Although they are called lovers, they are actually just getting to know each other simply, and some of the feelings and personalities when they are together.

Gu Anye did not think about falling in love like a little girl. After thinking for a while, she nodded and said: Mr. Helen is my type. If it is Mr. Helen, I will consider it.

This was said even more directly than Helen, which surprised Helen a little. But she was also very happy, because at least the other party didn't hate her.

And he was the type that the other person liked. This made Helen more confident.

Helen said happily: "Really? That's great. If Miss Guan likes my type, we can get to know each other. If possible, I want to get married early."

After saying that, he said embarrassedly: The main reason is that Miss Gu An is too outstanding. I am afraid that after a long time, she will no longer belong to me.

Gu An nodded and said: My request is very simple, that is, you cannot touch any woman other than me. Even if the other person falls on the road, you cannot help her. I think Mr. Helen understands what I mean.

Helen smiled and said: Of course, I haven't even held a girl's hand in all these years. The first reason is that I don't like to touch people I don't like.

If you fall on the road, just get up by yourself. If you can't get up, I will just call an ambulance. I am not a doctor, so how do I know if there will be secondary injuries after I help you up?

The second reason is that many girls now always approach me with various reasons, which makes me very disgusted.

I have been doing this for many years. Many girls say that I am a blockhead. In fact, I have seen through their tricks most of the time, but I just didn't expose them.

I also have requirements for my future daughter-in-law, which is that she should not be indecisive and should not always be looking at the pot while having her fill.

Upon hearing this, Gu An looked at Helen with a strange expression and said: Why do I feel like this is something a girl should say to a boy?

Helen was speechless and said: This sentence is not only for boys, but also for many women.

Gu An thought about it and nodded. Indeed, many women are similarly indecisive, always thinking that their men are not good in this or that way. Gu An sometimes wonders, why did you marry them if they are so bad?

To put it bluntly, after comparing herself with others, she comes back and feels that her man earns too little money and is not enough for her to spend.

That's why you always find various reasons to say that men are not good. In fact, you don't think about it. No matter how bad he is, it is your own choice. If you feel that you can't live together anymore, just divorce. There is no need to hurt each other.

Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, if you always lose your temper when you think the other person is not doing well, will the other person think that you have not changed and have always been a good person?

It’s just that one can tolerate it and the other can’t. It’s the same for both men and women.

When two people come together because of love, they may eventually go their separate ways for various reasons. Regardless of whether they are a man or a woman, one of them must no longer love the other.

If you love, you won't hurt. Only when you stop loving, will you hurt the person you once said you loved deeply.

Regardless of gender, they are actually equal in terms of feelings. You can't say that men are necessarily bad, nor can you say that women are necessarily good.

Before getting married, both of them were still single and didn’t have to worry about the whole family. But after getting married, they have to worry about a lot of things.

If the couple does not understand each other's efforts, then the marriage will not last long.

After marriage, they are no longer boys and girls, but men and women. This is also the transition from a single and free boy and girl to a man and woman who has to run around for the family.

Therefore, if a couple changes their hearts because of money, it only means that there is no true love between them. Don't say that one who doesn't run the household does not know how expensive firewood, rice, oil and salt are.

It’s the same for everyone. Didn’t you consider these things when you were single?

After marriage, men are responsible for the household expenses. The main reason is that women have to bear a lot from the time they become pregnant to the birth of the child, so there is a saying that men are responsible for external expenses and women are responsible for internal expenses.

A man supports his wife and children, not others, so don't say that a woman at home taking care of the children does not earn money and spends your money. When you say this, it means you don't love her.

You have to know that it costs money to hire a nanny, and it costs money to find a woman to give birth to your child.

When a woman marries you, gives birth to your children, and raises the children, it is not just the woman's responsibility.

So no matter what the reason is between men and women, as long as they quarrel or have a disagreement because of money, it only means that they no longer love each other.

Don’t say that you are forced by life or you are too tired. Who isn’t tired?

Whether you are a woman or a man, don't quarrel over money. Don't hurt the other person whether you love him or not. If you don't love him or her anymore, say it as soon as possible and let go.

Of course, there are also many couples who get together not because of love, so such division of labor would be more clear.

Even if there are children, the man earns money for the woman, and the woman will not ask if she is tired like someone who loves her, because this is the man's responsibility.

If you care about money, then don't have children. Without children, there won't be any expenses. After all, girls can find jobs on their own if they don't have children.

If both men and women have money, they may not care about money issues. Of course, these are things for the upper class.

Helen went on: After we get married, I will give you all my money. Money doesn't mean anything to me. What I want is that when we have money, we can spend it as we please, and when we have no money, you don't have to abandon me because I'm incompetent.

Gu An felt even more puzzled. It made it sound as if he was doing this for his money.

Helen continued: I'm not saying you're doing it for money, I mean you shouldn't abandon me just because I'm down and out. I don't want to hurt our relationship because of money.

Although we don't have any feelings for each other now, I believe that you will fall in love with me just the same, so what I mean is that you shouldn't hurt me because of material things.

Gu An was speechless and said: Don't worry about this. If you are worried about my money, you can keep it yourself. I don't need that stuff, so you don't have to worry that I am doing this for money or anything.

Helen quickly explained: "No, no, that's not what I meant. I didn't say you did it for money. Besides, if it's about money, you're much richer than me. How could I say you did it for money?"